The 40 Questions to Ask a New Guy

A gf of mine asked if I did the 40 Questions with him. What is that? ...I said. Ohh...that would have been good to know.... I must blog about this. The reasons to ask are obvious, I think. I have always had some version of this to ask, but I think there is utility in presenting it as "here are my 40 questions" becomes a bit of a game. Of course, what the answers mean depends on each person. And, it's up to you to ask the follow up questions of how long ago, frequency, etc. Are any really deal breakers? If someone has done the worst but proclaims "reform", I'd probably melt and think awe, but he want's to change.... is that okay? Especially if someone will admit to some of these things, could I really hold it against him?

So, these are the "40 questions" to ask every new guy. If nothing else it's a good way to get to know someone, his past.

currently married, been married?
last relationship,
longest relationship,
shortest relationship,
long distance relationship,
friends with benefits (refers to long term),
casual hook ups,
cheated on a gf,
multiple cheating,
one night stand,
how long/typical wait before sex,
sex with married person,
minor
animals,
objects, fetishes, other extreme practices
multiple people,
multiple people and objects,
in the butt
incorporation of violence; s& m
drug use; drugs and sex (what kinds),
alcohol consumption level,
pay for sex,
another man,
kiss etc. another a man,
number of partners; rate/estimate partners per year for last 3 years
self stimulation/gratification
regular physical check ups,
STDs/diseases,
ever unprotected sex,
how often unprotected sex,
do you have children
get a girl pregnant/abortion,
forced a girl to do something she didn't want,
persuaded a girl to do something she didn't want,
did something with a girl you regret/not proud of.

Ok, there are only 35...so I need 5 more...If you can think of others, send them my way and I'll add them.