Reflections

Every now and again I pause and reflect on how I've come along in this journey toward love and relationships. I don't have any regret of breaking up with my ex. I mean, I do think about what it would be like if we stayed together. We probably would be getting along okay, because we always got along. We were always compatible/friends, so yes, I still think it could have worked. But, I'm sure in the belief that we weren't passionate/romantic for each other. In love-speak, they always talk about the chemistry, passion, and illogic and lack of choice in love. We didn't have that. It's taken me this long to realize this because I always thought the other (what we had) was right and to be expected. Now, I understand otherwise because of my experiences.

IP14 is an example of the other end. There's heat, but am struggling to find the compatibility.