Progression

I've been out with IP14 a handful of times now, including a great date on NYE. It's been great, but now I'm having reservations. There are the specific things where we're not compatible, but I can't say are good deal breakers. For example, he is clean... a germ-phobe, is how I like to categorize it. It's better than being a slob, but I am pretty dirty. I mean, I have no problem touching the toilet knob to flush it with my bare hands. I like library books, even though they are cesspools of germs. He uses hand sanitizer. He swears a lot. Not at me, of course...but as I would say "its a great day" he would say "what a *** day". Its not inappropriate, just not how I talk.

But, the big important thing is that we talk, but we don't really communicate. Not sure how to describe it. Not sure if it's a realistic point. I believe we get to know someone by spending time and seeing them interact with different life situations. I don't believe talking is the only way to communicate and learn about each other but it helps. So, I guess what I'm saying, is that I'm not sure how much we are connecting with each other. Part me says to be patient. This sort of concern clears itself up the more you spend time with each other. The other part of me has warning signs, that he's not right for me.

What bothers me is that there isn't anything specific to dislike about IP14, so it's hard to evaluate. He treats me well, is attentive, and seems to be interested. But, do I really need to evaluate right now?