Lunch

Went to lunch with GO, a friend of a friend. I met him this past summer and saw him again recently. He asked me to lunch because he was going to be in the area. So, of course, I say yes. Date? or Not-a-date? I'm not particularly interested because I'm still focused on IP14, but was curious. Why why why....do some boys just not take a chance. Have more confidence than that... ask the girl out and face the possibility of no. A no up front can't be personal. A no after lunch...got to be worse, right? If you keep it ambiguous, it only leads to confusion and disappointment. You have to make it clear. He texted afterwards saying he had a good time at lunch. Nice, but now the confusion.