J3 & I

J3 and I have been talking on the phone. We want to see each other and admit to mutual attraction. Sounds promising, right? BUT, why does there always seem to be a "but"? Really! Supposedly he's busy this weekend. ALL day Saturday, and ALL day Sunday...something to do with the NFL playoffs. I'm in Salt Lake the following weekend and LV the weekend afterwards. That leaves weekdays, but between work and activity schedules it's really hard to find a date free to both of us. He threw out this upcoming Monday. That's my softball day. Tuesday? I want to sign up for a class. Wednesday? I made dinner plans with a friend. Thursday?...he's got a work commitment. So, in this situation, it's okay to sacrifice one of my activities, right? I'm thinking softball, partially because do I really want to play at 9:00 p.m. when I could be meeting him? Where's the commitment to the team? Feel so bad, but not bad enough. Is it really so wrong?