J3 - Drinking is Bad

Met with J3 for what was supposed to be coffee, but we met at a lounge/bar around 3:30 p.m. instead. So, of course we had to order a martini. Now, for those who know me, you know I don't hold my liquor. Drinking is bad, because judgment gets skewed. I can't tell if the fun good time is real or is the fuzzy alcohol. J3 is a real romantic, and in some very unexpected way that appeals to me. He wasn't being romantic; that would have been off-putting. But, he had an optimism about love and relationships that was engaging.