I am completely stunned. Like so worse than the last time. I texted Y16 to see how his weekend was. He was away this weekend, so, the weekend being over, I wrote to say hello. He writes back that he is going to take a dating break, sorry for now. I wrote back asking what happened.
Something is not right. I'm very upset. I mean, he was interested, he was. I was disappointed and thought it strange that he canceled on me last week, but it was understandable because we were both busy. It just doesn't make sense. I cannot accept this right now.
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awww...sorry to hear it didn't work out. think guys are hard to read. or maybe us gals want to read the signs that way? that was my problem...having hope for the guy and myself...and when it end, i wonder why...though it isn't the same as your situation...one idea as to why one didn't see it... -mspetite
That's a bummer...From my experience, a guy who really wants to be with you will want to see you more than once or twice a week. An interested guy will also just start assuming he's in an exclusive relationship with you rather than waiting around for you to bring up "the talk." You shouldn't feel like you're low priority on the guy's list- i.e. he'll make time for you after he's slept well, gone to band practice, had some beers with his buds, etc....When a guy does the "casual dating" thing, it usually means he's also seeing someone else, is a commitment-phobe, is still hung up on a former girlfriend, or really just doesn't want to be in a relationship 'cause he's got too many things going on in his life. In any case, it's not a reflection on you or the great person you are! I do think it's lame if he broke up with you over txt. That's not cool...-fogcitygirl
just a note to let you know i'm rooting for you!!! if this guy can't appreciate how great you are, then he's an idiot!
Have you thought about maybe the lesson is to embrace all that is good and accept what is unexpected? Dating has this risk, and sometimes the guys are just too wimpy (that's my story and I'm sticking to it!). Still, I accept people for who they are, even if they don't choose me romantically. It's an adventure, you can get scrapped up, but true love is at the end of the rainbow. Love ya!!
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