Monday, May 4, 2009

Starting Again

It's time to start thinking about starting again; get back into the game; find that window of opportunity; never give up hope; keep the spirits up and so forth....I went on a sierra club singles hike. Going back to the familiar. And, it wasn't so surprising. There are the lonely men who troll for women. So obvious, but at least they try. There was the "he's not so bad but obviously shy would have to work at him" guy. I'm just looking for friends, to do something that I enjoy doing. That's what I tell myself.

I plan to pursue the hiking groups because it is what I enjoy. If I can find someone who camps, skis and does water activities, I would be so set. Plus, he would have to travel, be smart, social and with good career/goals. Plus, it helps to be funny, witty, intelligent and all around attractive. Alright, I've done the list many times, I will stop.

Should I go back online? Should I do speed dating, or other paid singles events? I'm a believer that there's something, something more to do.

2 comments:

Amy said...

I truely believe that when you are enjoying your life...enjoying all that you do, who you are, etc..and not caring if you meet someone...that's when someone will come and meet you..

Cowsmama said...

I'd want to be proactive and do something. It's different for everyone, but it was when I let go of the goal, so to speak, that it happened for me.