Update

So I returned the actor's call on Mon. Couldn't talk long, and said I would call back. I decided not to, but he called me Fri; Left a message. I returned the call, said "I'm calling you back." He called back and invited me to join him in LA at some club. I didn't call him back. He then called Sat morning, and the first thing said/greeting was: "how's my girl doing!?" "Who's that?", I replied, knowing the line, but not knowing of a better retort. Later that conversation, after indicating I would not have time to meet up with him even though I was in his area, he said have a nice weekend, in a way indicating to me he won't call again.