It's Over, For Real This Time. For Real.

I played and have been played by a playa. (Am I playee?) J3 and I never got to go out again, which was disappointing but for the best. When I emailed him last night if we were going to see each other this weekend, he gave me the "it's been a long week, maybe next weekend, is that alright?" response. While that worked on me last last week, and worked on me last last last last last week, this time, I did not believe him. I know, I'm slow, but I really wanted it to work with him.

When I got that email, I quickly replied, "I'm disappointed because I thought we had something special going...but it's clear otherwise." He said he "doesn't do needy girls with expectations." I replied something or another. He said "there's another girl I've been seeing who is fun, smart and mellow without the needy expectations." I said, "other girl, huh?". He said, "yeah, here's a pic of us." I said "I'm baffled, why send me a pic of you two?". I continued "we are just different, let it go, no hard feelings, it's cool, you should have just been straight up/honest." He said "I told you so, but it's not my fault for your misunderstandings". I said, "you're so puzzling, there's this part of me that wants to figure you out." He said, "great, when are we going out next, I can make time this weekend."

The above quotes are to the effect of, not literal. Looking back, I should have called him on it and seen if he would have found time for me this weekend. I'm still pondering to see if any good can be taken away--learning experience, entertainment value, finally got to date a playa...?