Tuesday, September 25, 2007

Parsing perusals

So, the back and forth goes back and forth....then he said: Stay in touch though, ok?
This was said to me after determining that our schedules prevented us from getting together for almost 2 weeks. On the one hand, it expresses interest, no? On the other, hand its distant, like "take care". On the one hand it shows his doubt/insecurities; on the other hand, couldn't he just call if he were so concerned about keeping in touch? Is this like the obligatory "KIT" "BFF" scribbled on the last day of school in our yearbook? Yes, I have regressed. KIT my BFFs!

2 comments:

EL213 said...

I hate to say this, but sometimes the woman has to do more to generate interest. I still think you two have enough to get to know each other more and to build the trust, so stay positive and things will reveal themselves one way or the other soon enough.

Anonymous said...

Another friend has the policy that the guy must do more, i.e., must pursue. While it may work, when the woman does the pursuing, in the long run, is that the type of guy you want? So, I'm not sure what is overall better...pursue or wait.