I had a great time with RS last night and we are supposed to see each other tonight. So far it's good and I feel good/right about it. The question now, is what do I do about other guys who want to meet up? RS and I are hardly at the level of being exclusive, having gone out only 4 times. But,
there are others who want to meet up with me and I don't know how to respond. If you had asked me last Fall, there would be no hesitation, I would definitely meet others. But now, I don't quite feel so strongly about it. The rational side says I owe it to myself to meet others, how else will I know for sure. RS and I could fizzle by next week, so I should keep the opportunities open. But, it wouldn't be fair to the new people because I wouldn't really be open.
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My 2 cents: If you and RS are still in the "dating" phase, then it's okay to see others. Just be real picky about the other dates. Make sure they're potentials. I agree w/you. Need to put your needs first. Both of you need the test of time to see if this can evolve into a relationship. Besides, if the other potentials turn out not to be good candidates, then you will have no regrets.
It's good to keep an open mind about other potentials. However, you don't want to jeapordize what's good that's going on.
Another way to view this is if RS is the one, things will go smoothly and work out really well. Both of you will end up not thinking about others bc there just isn't the need.
What's surprising me is that I've less desire to go meet others. So far, it's good, why jeopardize it. I was so worried I'd be caught tonight.
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