Forgot to mention...a blast from the past just fb-d me. He's the guy...the guy I compare all my new relationships with. He's the one that was intense from the very first time we met. He was super fun when I had never experienced a super fun relationship. The problem as I remember was that he was just coming out of a long term relationship and so was I. The timing was just bad between us and neither could think of anything serious, only wanting fun flinging things. At first he emailed about 3+ months or so, and later even longer. The last time I heard from him was at least a year. I emailed back, that's the polite thing, right?