Sunday, August 16, 2009
More to Ponder
I met with I17 in between my events as planned. It went pretty much as I expected. He's a good person, but there wasn't anything special that stood out about him. He wasn't particularly attractive and wasn't particularly interesting...wasn't particularly anything...in a good or bad way. So when he asked if I was interested in seeing each other again, I said I had to ponder it. That lead to discussions on what ponder meant, appreciation for my honesty, and how my approaches to dates have changed over the years. Eh.
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4 comments:
do you really know someone after a emails, phone calls and a few meetings to know if someone is the one you like?
doesn't it take time to warm up to someone? though i guess if you want the instant sparks then he might not be the one?
-mspetite
you may realize something about him you like later?
I am all one for gut, so if you are not feeling the spark, let the guy do some work. If he follows up, then give it a chance. If he doesn't call, then move on.
I'm trying to trust my gut more, and make quicker decisions. In the past I would have given him another try, but I'm trying not to waste either party's time. I did give him my email and said to be in touch. I'm curious if he will contact me.
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