This is what I wrote to O? on Sunday after my exactly 1 hour first dinner date meeting. After trying to explain how it was confusing because it took him 7-8 months to meet up, I wrote:

That said if you are interested in me as a date...do you really think we're compatible? I don't like movies (the way you do) and have fleeting interests in photography. Really, the past year, I've seen a movie every 3-4 months. I hang out with friends who haven't seen a movie in 5 years. If you want to be friends..okay..I'm cool with that. But, you live kind of far, and we don't really have any common interests. That said, I'm always open to having more friends, contacts etc. You seem like a good person.

Four days later, he writes: I'll be honest with you...I do think you are a very attractive girl... and would like to get to know you better. Maybe its my laid back persona which makes me hard to read when you told me you were not sure what my intentions were...
I would really like to meet up with you again sometime ... Email me back your thoughts...

So it's flattering, sure...but really? I thought I was pretty clear.