The guy who I met at the mixer... H15.... I really like the beginning phase when you don't know the guy. He is perfect because I know so little about him. In my head, he is funny, active, thoughtful, a thinker, the romantic lead. He skis and scubas. How perfect. Then, the first conversation, and a bit of reality sets in. Then the second conversation, and more reality sets in. Oh, I want the day dreamer fantasy to continue. But, that will have to come to an end. It just does. I know, it's much too early to be skeptical. Given my recent history, I must keep an open mind; I'm taking it slow, cautiously and not expecting anything. We're supposed to go out, but he needs to get back to me. Scheduling difficulties.