Another reason I like meeting men online is because if it doesn't work out, you just say no and move on. Meeting someone from an activity groups is tricky. Supposedly it's ideal, right? But, how do you go about converting the friend? How do you minimize the awkwardness of transitioning to dating... and the reverse, of when you aren't interested, and need to go back to being just friends? With the online guys, there's no interest, and you just move on. With someone you know, there are these undefined rules of behavior, right? I really should not make it so complicated because it's done all the time. I am always surprised to learn about who's-dated-who within the group, but should not be.
Yes, there is someone in particular that I may have a little crush on. We had an enjoyable talk after our activity, and he hugged me goodbye. Well, okay, he hugs everyone goodbye, but still!
Oh, and then I have this fear concerning me, and my pattern of behavior. That, I rush into liking someone and then get bored and move on.
Sunday, April 6, 2008
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It's natural to get bored. Couplehood is unnatural in that we are meant to have lots of partners biologically. ;) Still, couplehood gives us the chance to grow as one with someone and to share experiences with that committed partner.
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