New Guy #2: "D"

Got off phone with New Guy #2: "D". 2 hours. Long @#$#! time. I'm exhausted, but at least this time there was no strange past relationship discussion. D's issue is he talks way too much, too fast and too long. I kept on saying to him "it's whoosh, overwhelming, too much, take a chill pill." It's so counter intuitive, but the more I push, the more "intrigued" they become. I think the new strategy will be to be silent and reserved. Honestly, I think that is what I'm looking for. Someone to have a normal, engaging, mentally stimulating conversation with. Not where I have to "yell" back off, where fiestiness is construed for interest.