What was I thinking?

I just got back from my date/first meeting with guy number 3, R. Let's see...it started at about 6:30p.m. and was home by 8:10 p.m. Hmm.....pictures are SO DECEIVING! I can't tell if the picture was old, or if the camera angle, lights, shot, etc. was particularly good, but he just was not the same. He was more mature looking than the photo. But, that's superficial and really, not the most important aspect. He's talkative, but there really wasn't anything really interesting to say. I get tired of the let's describe our travel experiences conversation. I get tired, of the where have you lived conversation. I get tired of the what do you/I do for work conversation. It's not bad conversation, but not engaging, interesting, exciting. Is it true, that I'll know it when I feel it? Is it possible that we just didn't get to topics that engage me? Such conversations, which I like, usually happen naturally, are not forced, but that just means that something prompts it, someone somehow brings it up. Am I looking for something not real, but a fantasy experience? I guess I am disappointed. I was hoping for butterflies, not bugs.