Wednesday, July 25, 2007
Wednesday
Met up with RS tonight at Fashion Island. (See 7/19/07) Had dinner then browsed around the mall. Concentrated on the art galleries and a pet store. He didn't walk me to my car, and I just rolled my eyes (in my head). Really, who raises these boys? I'm not asking for chivalry but courtesy. But that aside, I think I had a good time. My reaction is very reserved and cautious. He's easy to talk to. We laugh--not in an over-the-top kind of way, but in a casual, good time kind of way. Am I looking for uncontainable excitement compounded with anxiety-filled anticipation to be with him again? Because, I don't think that's what I feel. (But, my new thing is don't trust my feelings. My heady-steady demeanor is back and I will think this one through!!) Okay, bottom line, he's cute.
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I think walking a girl to the car is also a reflection of how considerate the guy is. I agree. It's part of his upbringing, but also he's an adult now. Should be able to think for himself esp. on the subject of courtesy. On the other hand, this is easy task for him to learn.
My two cents on what you're looking for: After the first date, you're not head over heels, but level headed. Conversation on 1st date, excellent. You two can chat for hours, but have to go bc it's getting late. You don't mind getting to know the person more. Aka, 2nd date ok w/you. You are definitely yourself and not on cloud 9. It's only after a few dates that you realize that do look forward to hanging out w/him. Then there is just a bit of anxiety-filled anticipation. Why have this feeling later? bc by then, you know you will have a good time w/ him..
Hmmm, not sure if i follow what you are saying.
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